Archive for May, 2006

A marriage that is not a marriage

If I were a Muslim man, I would be jumping with joy at the prospect of having one or two if not more wives where I do not have to be responsible for her upkeep. All I would be responsible for would be to provide for her sexual needs.

What can I say about a religion that has a paedophile as it’s founder?

How convenient for the man to have on the side one or more misyar marriages. Oh sure, it is to reduce the number of divorcees and unmarried women! How helpful and thoughtful of the men!

In Egypt and Saudi Arabia these marriages are mostly temporary, and my deduction from this is so that the couple can satisfy their lust without facing adultery or pre-marital sex charges from the religious police, and then move on.

I am sure there will be a lot of takers of misyar marriages if it is allowed in Malaysia. Malaysia Boleh!

The Star Online > Nation

Friday May 26, 2006

Don has idea for divorcees

A UNIVERSITY professor has suggested that men in Malaysia practise Misyar marriage to overcome the rising number of unmarried divorcees and women.

Utusan Malaysia, reporting on its front page, quoted Universiti Malaya’s Islamic Academic Studies lecturer Prof Datuk Dr Mahmud Zuhdi Abdul Majid as saying that this type of wedding could also reduce the incidence of vice among Muslim women.

He said the difference between Misyar and a polygamous marriage was that the husband did not have to provide money or clothing for his other wife but only be there to provide for her sexual needs.

Dr Mahmud Zuhdi added that this wedding was popular in the Middle East involving rich women who had difficulty looking for a life partner.

He added that even renowned Islamic ulama Dr Yusuf al-Qardawi in his edict said Misyar was legal as it could solve the problems of unmarried women or divorcees.

The practice was allowed and deemed to be necessary by several ulamas in some countries in the Middle East.

Dr Mahmud Zuhdi added that the Misyar marriage came into the picture after several groups urged the Fatwa Council to study if it could be implemented in Malaysia.

He said such a marriage should be practised in this country, as there was a rising number of unmarried women or divorcees.

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Abduallah Badawi a Clanging Cymbal

Why shouldn’t Islam be linked with extremism? Isn’t Islam the one religion that is responsible for the extremism that is happening around the world today?

How can misconceptions promote “dangerous divisions”? The activities of the Islamists are the ones that are dangerous.

If the Prime Minister of Malaysia wants to make extremism irrelevant, what has he as the leader of a so called moderate Muslim country done to encourage the irrelevancy of extremism?

Muslims in Malaysia are not free to renouce Islam. Non-Muslims in Malaysia are as good as “second-class” citizens.

If the Prime Minister wants to discourage extemism, he should first allow real freedom in the practise of whatever religion one desires in Malaysia. Ex-Muslims should be allowed to openly renounce Islam without fear of persecution.

The Malaysian government should cease in the destruction of houses of worship of other religions on the pretext of using the land for other development.

Prime Minister Abdullah Badawi should walk the talk, otherwise he is just a clanging cymbal of a politician.

The Star Online > Nation

Friday May 26, 2006

Abdullah: Islam should not be linked to extremism

TOKYO (AP) - Misperceptions of Islam are helping to promote dangerous divisions in the world, Malaysia’s prime minister said Friday, calling on the West and the Muslim world to foster respect for each other’s cultures.

Prime Minister Abdullah Ahmad Badawi, on a weeklong visit to Japan, said both parties should work to make religious extremists “irrelevant.”

“The greatest injustice is the (tendency) to associate Islam with extremism,” he said in a speech at the United Nations University in Tokyo.

Malaysian Prime Minister Abdullah Ahmad Badawi delivers a keynote speech during a seminar hosted by the United Nations University in Tokyo Friday, May 26, 2006. Abdullah is on a weeklong visit to Japan. (AP Photo/Junji Kurokawa)
“Al Qaeda … has been very wrongly taken as speaking on behalf of Muslims.”

Abdullah, whose country is considered a shining example of a moderate Muslim-majority democracy, said that fostering mutual respect for other cultures could prevent misperceptions from deepening divisions between the West and Islam.

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The Followers by Marina Mahathir

The following column by Marina Mahathir first appeared in the The Star on May 6, 2006.  How sane and right she is about the differences between the followers of Islam and the followers of Christ.

A friend was relating how after her daughter had read the Da Vinci Code, she had wanted to read the Bible. Which is not in itself a bad thing except that she was concerned that an impressionable young mind would not be able to differentiate fact from fiction. Also it seemed that perhaps what was needed is a Da Vinci Code-type book for Muslims to spark off the same level of interest in young people in their own religion.

Except that if anyone tried to write a similar thriller based around Islam, he’d be hounded and pilloried and threatened with death, thousands would riot in protest and people who would never have been able to read the book either because they are illiterate or can’t afford it would have died.

Such is the difference between our religions. While there are many Christians who are upset about the book and movie, they are countering it with seminars and other educational events to balance what is being said in the book, even if the book is only fiction. There have not been Da Vinci Code-related riots or deaths thus far. Which speaks volumes for the adherents of the faith.

It would be nice if everyone could brush off similar challenges and say “we are strong enough to withstand any attack”. Even if a book or a movie becomes a runaway hit, compared to the total number of any faith’s followers, the numbers sold can never match it. Books are by nature, in a world where illiteracy is still common, a luxury item. As are American movies, no matter what arguments people make about cultural imperialism.

I remember when there were riots over Salman Rushdie’s book The Satanic Verses, President Benazir Bhutto commented wryly that the people who were dying over the book were those who would never have read it, or possibly even heard of it if someone hadn’t whipped them into a frenzy. A similar situation arose with the cartoons. As insensitive as they were, they were still not worth dying over.

The point is that people’s impressions of a religion are often related to the behaviour of its adherents. Some religions are thought of as simply kooky because its followers behave strangely. Some are viewed as benign and peaceful because its followers resolutely will not harm a fly.

But when people, supposedly in the name of religion, riot, burn and kill, it can’t help but give the impression of a religion that advocates this, no matter how much we point out that nowhere in religious texts itself does it say you should do this. And unfortunately we get the whole spectrum, from men who publicly insult women on a daily basis without censure to the real crazies.

Recently in New York I had to suffer the embarrassment of having to listen to a Muslim man say to a non-Muslim woman at a forum, “Don’t mess with Muslims, we have nuclear weapons!” There I was trying to dispel stereotypes about violence-prone Muslims and in one fell swoop, this nutcase confirmed every stereotype there was.

I think the only people who can dispel stereotypes about Muslims are women. While there are certainly some conservative women, even when these speak out they will naturally change perceptions because in a world where Muslim women are perceived to be perpetually hidden behind curtains, their sheer presence and articulateness will be noticed. What more if they are able to argue rationally in a calm manner.

Thus far there have been very few Muslim men in the international media who give a good impression. We might argue that the Western media selects who they interview in order to perpetuate stereotypes, which is true and that is a problem for all of us. A man or woman who looks like the archetypal wild-eyed conservative is far more telegenic than someone who looks like everyone else. Channel surfers are far more likely to stop at the sight of someone they think of as alien to their culture than if they see someone too similar to them. To stop this means having to make a concerted effort to come together as one community and decide on a sophisticated media strategy. But sadly coming together as one united community is a challenge in itself.

If we do manage as a global community to change other people’s perceptions of us, the benefits would be many. Our own people might think more kindly of each other so peace would reign within. And because within ourselves, we respect diversity, we can do the same with others. Then peace would truly have a chance.

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Muslims and A Brothel

Are we to believe that Muslims do not visit prostitutes?  A discussion at Islamicity Forum about AIDS in Muslim countries reveal the denial that some Muslims are in - that Muslims do not involve themselves in activities that expose themselves to the AIDS virus.

There is without a doubt a great denial in the the belief and the practise of Islam among the Muslim population.

From the Spiegel:

German Brothel Removes Muslim Flags Amid Threats

A German brothel seeking to drum up business during the World Cup has been forced to remove the national flags of Saudi Arabia and Iran from an array of flags on its facade after threats from Muslims saying it was insulting their faith.

The offending poster is plastered on the side of the Pascha Brothel in Cologne.
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The offending poster is plastered on the side of the Pascha Brothel in Cologne.

It must have seemed like a good idea at the time. Europe’s largest brothel, the Pascha in Cologne, which incidentally claims to be the world’s only brothel with a money-back guarantee for dissatisfied customers, attached the flags of all 32 nations competing in the World Cup to its façade in a bid to demonstrate international flair and attract custom during the tournament this summer.

A giant poster covering the side of the seven-story, 126-apartment building showed a friendly-looking blonde woman lifting up her bra above the slogan “A Time to Make Girlfriends”, in a play on the World Cup’s official slogan “A Time to Make Friends.” Right beneath her pink panties were posters of the flags, including those of strictly Islamic Saudi Arabia and Iran.

Pascha’s manager Armin Lobscheid had also erected real flags of all the World Cup nations on another side of the building.

The campaign provoked excitement, but not the kind the management was hoping for. Men from the Muslim community came to the door complaining that showing the flags of Saudi Arabia and Iran was an insult to the Prophet Muhammad. Later, some returned in masks.

“On Friday evening we were threatened by 11 masked men who demand that we take down the Saudi Arabian flag,” Lobscheid told the Kölner Express, a local newspaper. Not wanting any trouble, the brothel obliged and removed it and the Iranian one. But that still left the flags printed on the poster.

“On Saturday night there were 20 masked men armed with knives and sticks. They threatened to get violent and even bomb the place unless we black out the Iranian and Saudia Arabian flags on the poster as well,” said Lobscheid.

The men had left before the police arrived. But to spare his establishment any more trouble, Lobscheid ordered a crane to black out the two flags as well. Lobscheid is now considering filing a complaint but also wants to hold talks with the local Muslim community.

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